The hip tap.

My hips are very wide and even after I lose weight I truly believe my hips are still going to be very wide.

My problem is the everyone thinks that they are available for tapping. 

Here is an example.  I work in a clinic and there are counter everywhere and the space between them is what you walk through to go to the other side where the printer and mail is located.  Often that area gets congested.  A friend, yes she is a kind person but when we happened to be in the walk through at the same time she tapped my hip twice and she walked by. 

We could make it throught the space with no contact and I have complete this action lots of time. 

Please understand all my life i have had these extension at my side and people are drawn to them.  If I am standing and my sister needs to get by she does not say ” hey move”, or ” Excuse me” she taps my hip and then pushes me out of the way.    I have 3 sisters and they all do the same thing.  Needless to say this is one of the main reason I have “no touchy” policy.

Usually when I get dress I am always wearing shirts that cover the hips or jackets or sweaters that cover the hips.  Today is no exception but I took my jacket off and within 5 minutes!  I got the hip tap!

I do not tap little people on the head and since I stand 5 feet 9 inches tall in my barefeet  with heels on I am usually the tallest woman in the area.  How would they like it if I tapped them on the head everytime I passed them. Or even just occasionally a little tap on the head. 

 I do not see a preganet woman and think that touching her belly is a requirement  in order to walk by her.  But I see lots of people who think that way!  Also see and angry pregnanet woman who is  about to snap out on people as well.

It is diffcult enough getting the right type of clothes that just fit my hips properly now I have to make them invisible !